Relationship Advice Thread

[njrunner14]

Well since you know the best friend (obviously) how do you feel about her? If you just see her as a friend, then that's that. But if you're not sure, maybe hang out with her more to find out. But if you do end up liking her as a friend, just let her know that gently. I liked my friend but he only liked me as a friend and let me know that, and we're still great friends, so I'm sure if that'll be the case with you, you'll be fine.
As for the other girl...if you don't like like your friend, first of all, if that other girl is "crazily in love" is that in a stalkerish way. Cause if it is...avoid her hahaha. But if not, get to know her and see what happens.

[Red R1der]

it seems to me like pics are in order

[runner_dude]

+1. I think for any legit advice in this thread, you need to post pics.

And if you like like the best friend, I'd say go for it. Friendships -> More than friendships often work out really well.

[Blanken]

If anyone has my facebook, you could see my best friend, just saying aha.

[Red R1der]

Just post them.  If you're that uncomfortable with it then just post and leave it up for a while then edit the post and remove the pictures.

[alex-likes-running]

yeah. plus, just seeing a picture of one girl is useless, as a comparison is not possible

[Just Because]

Smart idea not to have a girlfriend right now   I spent a lot on my last girlfriend, and it only lasted a month..

I have two girls liking me, and one of them is like my best friend, but she has liked me for the past 2 months..  and this other girl I barely know is apparently crazily inlove with me...  And the girl who is like my best friend keeps on trying to find out more about the other girl and stuff and its all confusing, what should I do...?

Go with the best friend because that will be a longer lasting relationship that you will probably get more out of emotionally. If you go with the other girl who you don't really know and you find that you can't stand her then your relationship will probably last just as long as your last.

[runner_dude]

I have you on fb, but I don't know who she is . . .

[pinthin]

Aren't you a middle schooler? If so, why do you have Facebook? hahh just saying

And there were a couple of girls..

[alex-likes-running]

i think he's a freshie now haha

[Blanken]

I have you on fb, but I don't know who she is . . .

I'm not going to say, cause its kinda creeping her aha

[runner_dude]

I have you on fb, but I don't know who she is . . .

I'm not going to say, cause its kinda creeping her aha

That's what facebook is for . . .

[pinthin]

Is she reading this?

[alex-likes-running]

that would be weird lol, but after all the hg drama, plausible.

[Hurdle-Gurl]

that would be weird lol, but after all the hg drama, plausible.

haha yea it's very possible.

[pinthin]

Alex I just remembered that picture. haha

[running_violet]

I have you on fb, but I don't know who she is . . .

I'm not going to say, cause its kinda creeping her aha

That's what facebook is for . . .

plus rep hahaha 

[Red R1der]

I'm getting mad when I keep scrolling down through this post when I see new replies and seeing no pictures.

Take it from me, you're a freshman.  You can't even drive.  You're like a kid.  It seems like a couple years, but there is a big mental difference and a lot of maturing between your underclassman years and your upperclassman years.  Even when you're an upperclassman, you aren't as mature as you think you are.  So what does that mean for you in the meantime?  Just date around.  Can't decide?  Pick the hotter one.  Flip a coin.  There's little chance you'll marry either of these girls.  The relationship will end whether it's a month or a year or whatever and then you'll be on to the next one.  Might as well have some fun and rack up experiences that you can refer back to later on when new situations and problems arise.

Sounds harsh, but that's my $0.02. 

[Tri_Love]

I'm getting mad when I keep scrolling down through this post when I see new replies and seeing no pictures.

Take it from me, you're a freshman.  You can't even drive.  You're like a kid.  It seems like a couple years, but there is a big mental difference and a lot of maturing between your underclassman years and your upperclassman years.  Even when you're an upperclassman, you aren't as mature as you think you are.  So what does that mean for you in the meantime?  Just date around.  Can't decide?  Pick the hotter one.  Flip a coin.  There's little chance you'll marry either of these girls.  The relationship will end whether it's a month or a year or whatever and then you'll be on to the next one.  Might as well have some fun and rack up experiences that you can refer back to later on when new situations and problems arise.

Sounds harsh, but that's my $0.02.

Someone needs to tell my sister this.

[Running With Scissors]

I was going to reply to this but Greg seems to always have a answer I agree with when it comes to this stuff so yeah haha what he said is true.